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Memorize the name is important, because this is where there is interaction and mutual trust fellow born nature of the individual. He is the first step and the first thread that binds the hearts of individuals. He is the thread that binds small balls scattered. Everyone would be happy if called by name, what else with a name that he most liked.
Memorize the name has a very important role. Therefore, I will show some methods that can help this problem.
1. We have to cultivate curiosity and likes to memorize the names of others.
2. When he was acquainted, let us be ready to memorize his name - in full or in part - then remember and use them on the spot when speaking.
3. The name usually consists of three parts: his own name, the name of his parents, and family name. Name the most preferred by the owner is his own name or his kuniah. (Title name that is associated with the oldest boy, like Abu Khalid, Umm Khalid, and so on). If you add the name of the family name, it would be better. Usually the name of the family to one another is not the same so it is very easy to memorize, such as As-sunteri. As for names like Muhammad, Ali, Hasan, or Saad will very much be found, so it is rather difficult to memorize.
4. When acquainted with a new name, you must remember the people who have the same name - you've seen before - so easy to memorize.
5. At the time of acquaintance, you should pay attention to your face and condition, whether he is bearded, wearing glasses, how skin color, voice, her shape, her work, as well as where and how the introduction took place.
6. To consolidate the memory, you can write these names, and each time you meet you should call them by these names. If a residence far away, you should send him a letter, because it has an enormous impact in strengthening your relationship with them. Correspondence itself is a means of tarbiyah.
7. When it met again, you have to remember previous meetings and the first meeting, as this can assist you in remembering his name quickly.
8. Make friends with someone is a door for you to get acquainted with her friends, until you have a data name that very much. You also must get the names remain attached to the head.
Prophet s.a.w said,
"Including the cavalier nature of the person who entered into a friend's house, then served him food, he would not eat it, and a man who together with another man on the way, but he did not ask his name and the name of his parents. "(Narrated by Ad-Dailami)
Memorize the name has a very important role. Therefore, I will show some methods that can help this problem.
1. We have to cultivate curiosity and likes to memorize the names of others.
2. When he was acquainted, let us be ready to memorize his name - in full or in part - then remember and use them on the spot when speaking.
3. The name usually consists of three parts: his own name, the name of his parents, and family name. Name the most preferred by the owner is his own name or his kuniah. (Title name that is associated with the oldest boy, like Abu Khalid, Umm Khalid, and so on). If you add the name of the family name, it would be better. Usually the name of the family to one another is not the same so it is very easy to memorize, such as As-sunteri. As for names like Muhammad, Ali, Hasan, or Saad will very much be found, so it is rather difficult to memorize.
4. When acquainted with a new name, you must remember the people who have the same name - you've seen before - so easy to memorize.
5. At the time of acquaintance, you should pay attention to your face and condition, whether he is bearded, wearing glasses, how skin color, voice, her shape, her work, as well as where and how the introduction took place.
6. To consolidate the memory, you can write these names, and each time you meet you should call them by these names. If a residence far away, you should send him a letter, because it has an enormous impact in strengthening your relationship with them. Correspondence itself is a means of tarbiyah.
7. When it met again, you have to remember previous meetings and the first meeting, as this can assist you in remembering his name quickly.
8. Make friends with someone is a door for you to get acquainted with her friends, until you have a data name that very much. You also must get the names remain attached to the head.
Prophet s.a.w said,
"Including the cavalier nature of the person who entered into a friend's house, then served him food, he would not eat it, and a man who together with another man on the way, but he did not ask his name and the name of his parents. "(Narrated by Ad-Dailami)
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